Women in their 40s and 50s may expect a few menopause symptoms, such as hot flashes, uneven cycles, and nights of broken sleep. Knowing which changes to bring to a gynecologist is less obvious.
Six signs warrant a menopause evaluation, and each has a clear point for booking a visit.
You Can Judge a Menopause Change by Its Pattern and Daily Impact
In medical terms, you reach menopause once a full year has passed since your last period. Perimenopause is the name for the stretch before that. Changes can start during this time, even while your cycles are still regular, and it is easy to mistake them for stress, a busy job, or getting older.
You can usually spot abnormal menopause symptoms in two ways. The first is a clear change in pattern, such as bleeding after a year without a period. The second is the effect on your day, for instance being unable to sleep through the night, work a full day, or have comfortable sex.
Six Menopause Symptoms to Bring to Your Gynecologist
Bleeding Returns After a Year Without Periods
Call your gynecologist about any spotting or blood you notice after a full year without periods, even if it happens only once. In April 2026, the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG) issued updated guidance. The group reported that about 9 in 10 patients diagnosed with cancer of the uterine lining had bleeding after menopause.
For most people in this situation, ACOG now advises two initial tests, a transvaginal ultrasound and an endometrial biopsy. During that procedure, a provider takes a small sample of tissue from inside the uterus. The group changed its advice after researchers found that some cancers were missed when ultrasound was the only test.
Before your periods stop, you may skip some or notice a lighter or heavier flow. ACOG draws clearer lines in its guidance on abnormal cycles. Book a visit if you need a fresh pad or tampon every hour, bleed for more than seven days, or start a new period fewer than 21 days after the last one began.
Spotting after sex, or in the middle of your cycle, is also a reason to call. If you feel dizzy or faint during heavy bleeding, and if you are changing pads or tampons hourly for more than four hours, go to an emergency room right away.
You Lose Sleep to Hot Flashes and Night Sweats
If you wake from hot flashes several nights a week, change soaked sheets, or struggle through meetings or workouts, book a visit. Without treatment, they can last much longer than a few months.
In a 2015 analysis of data from the Study of Women’s Health Across the Nation (SWAN), the median length of frequent hot flashes and night sweats was 7.4 years. Women who experienced symptoms early in the transition had them longer. ACOG lists hormone therapy as one treatment for these episodes.
A provider will weigh the benefits of treatment versus the risks based on your own health history and your family’s before recommending hormone therapy. This review is a standard step in menopause care before any menopause treatment begins.
Low Mood or Anxiety Lasts for Weeks
Short bursts of irritability are common perimenopause symptoms. Tell your gynecologist if you feel sad or anxious most days for several weeks, if you no longer look forward to hobbies you used to enjoy, or if you have sudden panic attacks.
The North American Menopause Society, now The Menopause Society, published depression guidelines in 2018 describing perimenopause as a stage of higher risk for depression, including for anyone who has never had it. The same panel also found that women with a past major episode are more likely to have another during these years.
Because mood changes, night waking, and hot flashes can affect each other, a gynecologist may look at them together. If you have thoughts of harming yourself, call or text the 988 Lifeline right away, or call 911.
Vaginal Dryness or Painful Sex Gets Worse Over Time
Doctors group vaginal dryness, irritation, and pain with sex under one diagnosis called genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM). In its 2020 position statement, The Menopause Society describes it as a long-term condition that tends to worsen unless it is treated.
Unlike hot flashes, these changes may not resolve on their own, and mild discomfort can get harder to live with. Pain with sex can also feel too private to mention or easy to dismiss as part of midlife. It is a treatable medical symptom to speak about with your gynecologist.
Schedule an evaluation if you have stopped having sex because of pain. The same goes for burning or spotting from dryness during everyday activities, or discomfort that has gotten worse over several months.
You Have Repeated Urinary Infections
GSM can involve the urethra and bladder too, and some women notice more leaking or urgency in midlife as a result. In its 2025 guideline, the American Urological Association defines recurrent urinary tract infections (UTIs) as two separate infections within six months during the past year.
If that definition fits your history, see a gynecologist. Book a visit, too, if burning returns after treatment or you have started leaking urine during daily activities. If you also have a fever, chills, or pain in your side or back, get care the same day. Those signs may be associated with a kidney infection.
Joint Pain or Memory Changes Have No Clear Explanation
About two-thirds of women in SWAN reported forgetfulness or similar complaints during the menopause transition. On formal tests, participants showed a temporary dip in processing speed and verbal memory that went away after their periods stopped.
Forgetfulness that keeps getting worse is outside that pattern, and so is trouble managing familiar tasks. Both are worth an evaluation, as is anything family members point out.
Midlife joint pain can come from hormone changes, arthritis, or an old injury. Bring up swelling, redness, warmth, or stiffness that makes it hard to move. Your gynecologist can help sort out whether menopause, another condition, or both are involved, and whether you need a specialist.
A Written Symptom Record Makes the First Visit More Productive
With written notes, a provider can see patterns that are hard to describe from memory during a menopause evaluation. Track three things: timing, severity, and impact.
Timing means the first day of each period or episode of spotting, how long bleeding lasts, and when hot flashes or night waking happen. A provider can learn far more from two or three months of calendar entries than from a single week.
Severity means rating each symptom from 1 to 10, counting the pads or tampons you use on your heaviest days, and noting how many times you wake each night. Exact numbers matter less than consistency, since a provider is looking for changes over time.
Impact means the daily activities you skip or struggle with because of a symptom, such as finishing a workday, exercising, or having sex comfortably. Add a list of your medications and supplements. The right next step depends on that full picture of your menopause health, and an appointment is where you and your gynecologist work it out.
Schedule a Menopause Evaluation with Our All-Women Team

Bring your notes to a menopause doctor, even if you have tracked only one of these signs. Raleigh Gynecology & Wellness has focused on women’s health for more than 30 years.
Our all-women team can go over what you recorded and adjust your care at follow-up visits. You can book a menopause visit online or call 919-636-6670.

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